By Rosemary Ravinal
MIAMI — Some people say their hearts have been touched by words. Others say their hearts have been broken. For this year’s Valentine’s Day, I’m inspired to explore how words carry the weight of our emotions and intentions, how they influence others and build relationships in your work and personal lives.
Words spoken in anger can inflict deep wounds on relationships. Hurtful words can linger in the minds of others long after the anger has subsided, leaving wounds that never heal. The adage, “Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret,” holds a profound truth. There’s great wisdom in restraint and keeping silent when anger takes hold.
There are approximately 170,000 words in current use in the English language, yet we may use just 20,000 in a lifetime. By expanding your vocabulary, you can find new words to express how you feel and deepen your interpersonal relationships.
Effective communication is the bedrock of any healthy relationship. Words that convey love, support, and understanding can strengthen the bonds between individuals. Expressing appreciation, validation, and encouragement creates an environment where both partners feel seen and valued. The same applies when communicating with your team, partners, associates, bosses, and clients.
The concept of love languages was introduced by Dr. Gary Chapman in his book “The Five Love Languages.” According to Chapman, people express and receive love in different ways, and understanding these “love languages” can improve communication and relationships. Words of Affirmation is one of these and involves expressing affection through spoken words, compliments, encouragement, and verbal affirmations.
Do you need help polishing a speech or presentation for work? Let veteran public relations professional and public speaking coach Rosemary Ravinal be your guide. Private coaching sessions are available. Schedule an exploratory call with Rosemary to get started.
